14 May 2014

Happy Birthday Molly!

Happy Birthday to You!
Happy Birthday to You!
Happy Birthday to Molly . . . .  your 4 years old!
Happy Birthday to You!



I can't believe my daughter is 4 years old!  Molly you are super smart and very observant.  You can be an angel and a crazy drama queen.  You never stop talking and asking questions.  You can recognize all your letters and numbers and are beginning to pick up little site words.  You love to draw pictures, cut paper into small pieces, serve people delicious snacks from your kitchen, and help mom in the real kitchen.  You love to lay on the couch and watch movies, read books, read books to your brother, and you love to play with your brother (even though you also love to kill each other).  You are highly opinionated and sometimes the craziest things will set you off into a screaming fury.  You have lungs like no other and my ears are often sore.  You have a crazy imagination and are often found making up crazy stories and pretending to do all sorts of fun and exciting things.  When I can't find you, your favorite hiding places are in your closet and  on the far side of mom and dad's bed.  

You love school, but are not real excited to go to dance.  You are really good in Sunbeam class, but insist on sitting with mom and dad's class during sharing time.  You can climb the highest slide at a park if no one is watching, but can't velcro your own shoe if mom is around.  You are a pro at riding your tricycle and can make it all the way around the block without complaining.  

You love ice cream, noodles of any kind, yogurt and cheese.  You prefer a cheeseburger to chicken nuggets though your favorite fast food joint is Chick-Fil-A.  You love all kinds of "dip" and we sometimes have to stop you from totally grossing us out.

We love you very much and we don't know what we'd do without you.  Thank you for being my #1 daughter.  Happy Birthday!




08 May 2014

Updates

Things are crazy busy at the Binggeli House and we are all struggling to keep our heads above water.  Blogging has been neglected, but here are a few updates:

WILLIE
Willie made it to Lithuania!  He spent a few days in Riga, Latvia where the mission home is and then rode a bus to Siauliai, Lithuania, where he will be serving for at least the next 6 weeks.   His first e-mail to us was just great.  He is so full of enthusiasm.  His companion is a guy from Cache Valley (Sky View High School) named Elder Marshall and one of the people he's met already is an American who has a very interesting blog about living in Siauliai and teaching at the University there.  I took this photo from a post from his site about his interactions with Mormon missionaries.  I have read quite a few posts on his blog and have already learned a ton about this cool city where Willie is serving.


JAMES
James got accepted to the U's Master of Nursing Program and plans to start this fall in the Care Management program. He is looking forward to it and thinks it will open doors to the next part of his career.  He has been taking a statistics class at SLCC as a pre-requisite and took the final exam tonight.  We are keeping our fingers crossed that he gets a B or higher.  If not, he has to retake it this summer.  He took some time off to study for the final and am hoping for the best.  I'm not quite sure how his job-school-tuition-income situation will all pan out, but we are working to make sure it will . . . somehow.

GRANDPA
On Saturday afternoon Molly and I visited Grandpa while Jack took a nap.  Molly layed on the window bed and played with my phone and I actually was able to have a nice visit with him.  We usually are a whirlwind of crazy and aren't able to visit for more than a few minutes.  

The fall was on St. Patrick's Day, so he is approaching month two of being away from home.  Grandpa seems to be doing much better.  He is really bored and can only go for walks when not connected to his feeding tube, but he remains pleasant and in really good spirits.  He is diligent in following all the directions his doctors have given him.  His neck is healing.  The issues with his prostate seem fine.  He is working hard in physical therapy.  He has continued to fail the swallowing tests, but seems to be improving and has been able to eat small amounts of yogurt, pudding, and applesauce on his own.  Unfortunately he had to return to the emergency room earlier this week because a nurse at the care center put his calcium pill in his feeding tube incorrectly and it clogged.  After an evening of getting the run-around, he spent the next day at a different hospital getting a new feeding tube put in.  

MOLLY & JACK
The two munchkins are crazy as usual.  There birthdays are approaching and Molly asks me every morning if it is her birthday yet.  Jack is talking like crazy lately and is just really funny.  They love to play outside, though we haven't the last couple of days because the weather is crappy.  They are practicing for their school program which sounds like quite the production this year.  It includes songs from Frozen, Despicable Me, the Little Mermaid and even Ghostbusters.  Molly is always singing and Jack has pretty good timing to join in and throw his arms in the air on the chorus to "Let It Go."

If anyone reading this would like to join in their year-end festivities, here is some information:
  • Molly & Jack's School Program - Wednesday, May 28th - 6:00 p.m., Murray High School
  • Molly's Dance Program - Thursday, May 29th - 6:00 p.m., Kearns High School (Molly's class is the second number so don't be late - and there is a ticket charge to get in)
HALEY
Remind me never to have a semester like this again.  Of the 7 classes I am teaching, I have 6 classes to prepare for (5 different courses, plus one class that meets every day instead of every other day) and I agreed to teach during one of my prep periods so I only get an hour and a half every other day to do all the necessary work I need to do (which means when I want to write a catch-up blog post I do it at 2:00 a.m. after I've woken up at the kitchen table, not finished with the stuff I should do for tomorrow, but don't want to do anymore).  I am also in the process of adopting a textbook for our school next year (with the one other teacher in my department who wanted to participate) and that has been not only stressful to set up online programs, pilot the books, convince the kids to try something new, etc. but tends to suck away any additional minutes I may have to work on everything else.  Today I was in two meetings from 1:30-4:00 with reps from two different publishing companies.  The hardest part is we still just don't know what decision to make and whatever we choose, I'm sure people will not be happy with it.  

Besides school, my sister talked me into doing this 12-Week Healthy Living Challenge with her, a couple of my cousins, and aunt, and a bunch of other people I don't know.  It includes getting daily points for exercise, eating fruits and vegetables, counting calories, staying away from sweets, drinking 8 cups of water a day, etc.  I am pretty much getting a F with the challenge and I moved up from #18 out of 18th place last week to somehow being #18 out of 20 places this week.  I have not been exercising much, though I did buy a pedometer to find out how much I actually walk at school and some days I am able to count that as part of my exercise time.  Though I have been eating less crap than usual and keeping track of my calories has been very eye-opening, I still have little will power to avoid sugar put in my face (like the cupcake at today's textbook meeting). 

To make the challenge more interesting, I also started a sub-challenge with my sister and friend Emily.  This sub challenge is called "Loser Buys Dinner at the Rio Grande."  The loser will likely be me, but at least it has added and element of fun to the competition and maybe, just maybe, I can stay competitive with Emily.  I am taking it seriously, but even on days when I exercise and get all my fruits and vegetables in, I rarely get 7 hours of sleep (another 5 points lost each day).

WHAT ELSE . . . .
We are looking forward to getting to a few of Wyatt and Elliott's baseball games this month, celebrating birthdays, working in the yard, and getting closer to summer.  We are planning a little vacation, too.  If we are lucky, my house may magically straighten itself up, though I'm not holding my breath.  Things are stressful, but we are very blessed and have much to be thankful for.

03 May 2014

Political Education Rant

A friend of mine posted this video (with a Glen Beck link) on facebook and it struck a nerve.  Though I agree that healthy political debates and opposition are good, I wholeheartedly disagree with this guys viewpoint.




Interesting.  As a math teacher in the middle of this, however, I see the common core as a great tool to push students further and into more rigorous thinking than we have challenged them to do before (or at least in my generation of teaching and my generation of being a student).  Utah's implementation of it has been less than perfect and has left teachers to try to interpret and create much of the curriculum ourselves, but the core itself is good.  I am teaching kids concepts that are beyond the level of what many of them would have otherwise reached.  And guess what, many of them get it!  He said we want to teach "free minds," but everything in society has minimum expectations and education is no exception.  We need to give kids as much opportunity to learn as we can and exposed them to as much "free thought" as we can so that they can make decisions for themselves and be contributing members of society.  Teaching is a difficult job for many, many reasons.  All teachers I know are frustrated with Utah's approach to implementing the Core, but I don't think any would call the core a stifling socialist takeover.



29 April 2014

Lithuania Express

I carried my phone in my pocket all day today for two reasons:
1) to see if the pedometer really works
2) to be ready to talk to my brother if/when he called

What were the results?
1) the pedometer doesn't really work and it gets stalled, going for minutes at a time without recording any steps
2) I missed the call.  Arghhhhhhh!!!

I can't believe I missed the call.  Fortunately, he did leave me a nice voice mail message from the Chicago airport.  I was able to play it for my kids to hear it.  He called and talked to my mom twice (once in Salt Lake and then again in Chicago) and that is probably more important anyway.

He was supposed to be ready to leave the MTC at 3:30 this morning.  He took off this afternoon from Chicago and around 10:00 p.m. tonight (Utah time) landed in Frankfurt.  He is now probably close to boarding his final flight for Latvia (which will land around 4:00 a.m. Utah time).  He'll spend a few days in the mission home there and then will be forwarded on to Lithuania for the next 22ish months.  He sounded excited on the phone even though he said he was "an emotional wreck."  My mom said he was just so excited when she talked to him, too.

We love him and we know he'll be a great missionary!

(even though it seems like he took quite a bit of time taking "selfies" at the MTC and probably should have gotten a hair cut while he was there).



 

Dance Class Parent Day

Today was parent observation day at Molly's dance class.  She has improved a ton since last fall when I got to watch her.  I'm not talking about her dance skills, but more her cooperation and participation skills.  (It may have helped that I threatened her before the class and also promised a Slurpee if she was good).  She was an angel and did everything she was supposed to do.  She had to leave the dance floor only a couple of times to come and give me a hug and near the end, she kept hollering at me, "Mom, I can't talk to you.  I have to focus."  Um . . . ok.

Jack was really good and sat on my lap the whole lesson, also.

Sometimes (a lot lately), I am completely overwhelmed and wonder if I will ever catch a break with multiple aspects of my life.  Lately Molly has been a handful, but this afternoon I was finally able to catch that break and have a great experience at her dance class.  No crying.  No whining.  No pitching fits.  It was a good afternoon.