27 August 2014

Some things are so hard

I found this Coke calling my name at Harmons tonight. Because I have been doing the Healthy Living Challenge, I honestly can't remember the last time I drank a real Coke. It was probably at least in June sometime.  I did have a diet Dr. Pepper last Wednesday, but I only drank half the can, lost interest and threw it away. 

This week's food challenge is no grains, including extra credit points if you can stay away from rice and corn, too. This has been the hardest challenge yet! It is only Wednesday and I think I might die. I caved on the extra credit and I've eaten a couple of corn tortillas (which I don't really even like, but they tasted pretty good).

I can do it! ...... I think.

Since I can't eat a donut or cookie or anything like that for my sugar day this week, I thought maybe I would treat myself to this Coke ..... Or not. I may just save it for a rainy day.

24 August 2014

Talofa

My cousin Eddie got married on Saturday to the beautiful Nina Malufau.  They were sealed in the Oquirrh Mountain Temple and then had a true Samoan wedding party with dancers, tons of crazy food, and about 20 cakes.  I can't say I was a big fan of the food, but otherwise, it was a great day!

Here is the short bullet point version:
  • Sealing in the Oquirrh Mountain Temple.  Parker and Natalie had kid duty outside.  The sealing was very nice.  James had to work and there were a few moments when Molly and Jack were stinkers, but mostly they were really good the whole day.
  • Sandwiches and chips out of the back of the Ottowear Van in the temple parking lot
  • Home for a quick nap (for Jack)
  • 3:00-4:00 p.m. Reception line for a quick hour with some delicious hors d'oeuvres.  4:00-later p.m. was a dinner and program. 
  • The bride, groom, and wedding party went out into the hall and were announced two at a time to enter and sit at the head table.
  • Everyone was told by the MC to sit down and enormous plates of very strange food were served to all of the old people.  The rest of us grabbed our plates (styrofoam to go boxes) and stood in line for very strange food to be dished to us.  The food included giant sausage, corned beef, pork, fried chicken, weird root potato thing, potato salad, traditional island noodle stuff, and spring rolls.  I have had Polynesian meals before, but this was not quite what I would have expected
  • Next was a program that even included the "wedding haka."  Parker said the program felt like a HHS multi-cultural assembly.  It was fun, though.
  • Then the MC continued . . . he danced, made Eddie and Nina dance, had all of the groomsman dance, it went on for quite a while and then it was over.





23 August 2014

Summer Ending

The summer has come to a close. We started back to rat race last Monday. I think the kids and I really need the routine and regiment, but not the getting up early and not being able to just bum around. It has been a great summer, though.

During our last week of summer . . . . . 

Molly joined the neighbor kids selling rocks on afternoon.  Someone actually stopped and bought a few. 


We went to the Ogden Temple open house with Grandma and Grandpa Binggeli and James' aunt and uncle, Ina and Rex.  

The kids and I went to the Spartan Station open house.  They had a blast and didn't want to leave.  


We went to the zoo!  The baby elephant was playing in the water.  The kids were well-behaved. We ate our favorite mac and cheese in the Beastro.


 . . . . Until next summer!

Jeremy tatoos

Sometimes after a good day, we make bad choices. We went to a wedding, I mowed the lawn, I got the kids bathed and to bed, James came home from work, and then I made the bad choice.  I went to Wal-Mart.  For a late night visit it was surprisingly not that crowded. However, it was bad because I had to dodge our old renter most of the visit. I had no interest in making small talk with a loser guy who owes us money.

We had milk and enough food to get us through tomorrow, but I needed to go stock up for "Gluten Free" week.  I bought corn tortillas and corn bread and I guess we'll be eating some rice this week.  I also found a gluten free cracker to take to school for lunch.  

Since I was at Wal-mart, I also browsed the kids clothing sections.  I got Jack a cute long sleeve shirt and a long pair of pants just in case he needs them soon (I have a few similar items in his stash of clothes, I think, but not many).  It was only 58 degrees on my way home from the store, after all.  I could not find a single pair of pants for Molly-wog in the girls section at Wal-mart that I liked.  There were few to choose from.  I either found over-priced non-adjustable waist bedazzled jeans or leggings with fake leather inserts down the side.  I think she still has a couple of long pants from last year, but I need to go through her stash, too and see what's there.  Needless to say, she didn't get anything tonight.  

The wait at the check-out was not as miserable as it has been before on Saturday late nights, but the lady in front of me did have a post-it note with price match prices written on it (I guess you don't even have to bring in the ad and they do it).  She and the cashier had to adjust the price on nearly every item in her cart.  He even had to get his phone calculator out to give her the right price for the watermelon because it was on sale for less money per pound at Reams.
I should have just gone to Reams Why do I never learn?

11 August 2014

I Read Books

Since my last book review in the fall, I have actually read some other books.  Here are my reviews of them!

History Decoded: The 10 Greatest Conspiracies of All Time by Brad Meltzer

This book is the basis for the History Channel's series of the same name.  It discusses, well, conspiracies.  Did John Wilkes Booth actually die in the burning barn in Virginia or live under a pseudonym for years to come?  What really happened at Area 51?  And, of course, how many conspiracies can you name surrounding the assassination of Kennedy.  The book ranks the 10 greatest conspiracies from ten down to one, with Kennedy being number one.  Some of the first stories were interesting because I have never heard of them before - like what happened to all of the Confederacy's precious metals after the Civil War and are they still buried somewhere today?  However, by the time I got to the last chapter I had lost interest, but read it anyway.  I was thinking I could learn some spectacular new theory about who killed JFK and why  they did it, but alas, it just listed all the possible theories that any who has ever googled "JFK assassination" would have found.  

If you've never really read anything about conspiracies and think that this sounds interesting, it would probably be a good book to try.  If you are a history nerd who questions everything you read and assumes everything could potentially be a government cover up, you'll be bored with this one.  


Outiliers: The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell

David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants by Malcolm Gladwell

Malcolm Gladwell is a numbers guy from Canada.  He is so into numbers that he was invited to speak at the National Council of Teachers of Mathematics (NCTM) annual meeting in Salt Lake City several years ago.  I remember listening to him speak and thinking that what he had to say was very interesting, but then I couldn't keep track of the purpose or message behind his thoughts.  That's kind of where I was reading these books.  

I really liked the beginning of both of them, but then I just couldn't finish them.  I probably should have skipped to the end to see how he wrapped it all up, but they both expired and disappeared off my phone before I was able to do that.  

Outliers is a statistical term for things that are out of the ordinary, don't fit within the regular data set, and are so far out there that if you consider them, they can really throw off the mean.  Gladwell looks at people who are outliers and how they got to be where they are.  He begins by talking about professional hockey players in Canada and how we may think they were all born with this innate ability to play hockey, but when you look at the data behind it, you find that most of them have birthdays between January and March.  Why?  Canada's youth hockey leagues are grouped by year of birth.  The kids with January birthdays are likely to be bigger, faster, and stronger than the kids they are playing against who have December birthdays.  The kids who are selected to go on to the next levels and then given more opportunities for better coaching and more hours of experience are picked out from those who have "natural" talent.  However, the "natural" talent of the unskilled is usually the kids who are simply older.  If you have a later birthday, you simply aren't likely to be a professional hockey player in Canada.  The same is true for soccer in most South American and European countries.

Gladwell goes on to discuss the success stories of Bill Gates and The Beatles.  The Beatles were a result of 10,000+ hours of practice, mostly during trips to Germany to get them where they were.  Bill Gates was a result of circumstance and opportunities presented to him at a young age that would not have been in the sights of many of his peers.  The book tends to debunk the notion of rags to riches stories and pulling yourself up by your bootstraps, but rather circumstance, opportunity (for sure being able to have the work ethic to grasp at the opportunity), and literally being in the right place at the right time.

David and Goliath has a similar tone.  David didn't biblically defeat Goliath just simply because God willed him to do it (don't read too much into the spiritual nature of this), but because he attacked Goliath's weaknesses.  Basically, he wasn't fighting Goliath the way that Goliath had been trained to fight.  He used skills and tools that totally caught Goliath off guard and usurped the traditional style of the fight.  Anyone can be defeated if you use the right tools and attack in the right places, usually using methods that the enemy wouldn't be likely to use.

Gladwell discusses a silicon valley computer nerd who coached a youth girls basketball team.  The girls were terrible and the coach had no sense of the game either, but decided that he could win if the girls on his team were able to get the ball under their basket and score quickly.  His strategy was to play a full-court press for the entire game.  He ran the girls like crazy so they were well-conditioned and then taught them a few defensive moves and how to trap the ball.  The girls flustered even the best of teams because they were able to stop the ball before it crossed the timeline and get quick steals and layups.  They attacked the weaknesses of their opponents by catching them off guard and playing by non-traditional methods.  The basketball nerd in me says 1) don't press if you don't have to because you're messing with the game and 2) can you really press an entire game and not just die of exhaustion.  Anyway, it was something to think about.

There are other stories that are interesting like this one, and I enjoyed the first few chapters, but then again, I lost interest.  I would recommend taking a look at these if you like the statistics and analysis behind real-life situations.


The Fault In Our Stars by John Green

I guess this book is considered juvenile literature, so perhaps it is because of my closeness to juveniles that I liked it.  Honestly, I was quite smitten by the book!  It's fiction, which is a genre I really don't read much.  The last fiction book that I actually made it all the way through was The Help (which I also quite liked).

The synopsis of the book is that the high-school aged Hazel Grace has terminal cancer but has had good luck with a new drug that seems to be extending her life.  Her parents make her attend support group where she has a friend Isaac and then meets her love of the book, Augustus "Gus" Waters.  Gus has cancer that caused him to lose a leg, but is currently in remission.  Isaac, by the way, has eye cancer, already has one glass eye, and is going to have surgery to remove the other.

Though the premise seems super depressing, full of cancer, ICU visits, etc., the book is full of fun, quirky, witty conversations between Hazel and Gus.  Gus is heroic and silly and very likable.  The book is full of quotes that will end up inside the lockers of high school girls like, "I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once." I like the book because even though they are high school aged students, they are very smart and mature (perhaps caused by dying from cancer), but also just goofy high school kids trying to figure out their place in the world around them while interacting with each other, their parents, doctors, and peers.  The book is very well-written and it is easy to become completely engulfed in it.  Plus, it is short.  I actually read it twice.

Without giving too much away, please note that people with terminal cancer eventually die so the end of the book may require some klenex.

I was a little late to the Fault bandwagon and the movie has been out a while, but my friend Emily and I went to see it a couple of Saturdays ago.  The movie was pretty good, too, and I liked the soundtrack.  I would advise that you read the book before you see the movie.  Here is the trailer (sorry there isn't a movie about the Malcolm Gladwell books, as if anyone really wants to see them).